HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU ARE ON A RIGHT PATH?

As lightworkers, we do things differently…

We step out of our safety zone to uncover what we’re really here to do. This is rarely an easy journey or clear path, as we have a lifetime of external conditioning, baggage and blocks… Stories we have been told, stories we have told ourselves and paths we have been told to follow, in order to live a life that fits in with our society and culture.

Our well-meaning family and friends always want to protect us. Our teachers try to fit us into a structure, reshaping and remodeling us from a circle to a square and vise versa. The government, media, and corporations feel safer when we play small, think and live according to what we are told. Many of us have been advised to be more practical, more realistic, and to have a plan B and C.

Over the years, these messages and patterns have created confusion within ourselves about who we really are. Our vision have become blurry and we have lost ourselves … almost.

And yet, it’s never too late. It’s better to be a lion for a day than a hamster on a wheel for a lifetime. Our lion instincts never die because it wants to be heard and be seen.

Many of us have been rejecting our soul’s voice for years. We’ve been trying to fit in, afraid to stand out, numbing our senses with drugs and alcohol, overstimulating our bodies, following gurus, parents or partners, seeking approval, labeling ourselves as ‘freak’, and comparing ourselves to others.

We live in a society where it’s easy to merge with the crowd and follow somebody else agenda.. Our soul has been ignored and beaten down. But it craves to be seen and heard. We are confused about what we are here to do because we have no idea who we truly are.. And sometimes, it takes to experience a crisis in order to change and begin seeing kindness and faith around us.

Our unique gifts and talents have been dormant for years, waiting for the opportunity to take center stage…

It’s time to let them step into a spotlight and be seen, heard and expressed fully.

Allocate time to get to know yourself, even if you’ve done some inner-work before, follow the steps and do it again.

Why? Because what you discovered about yourself last year, last month or last week may already have evolved. There may be more that’s now ready to be revealed, or you may have outgrown what you thought you knew. This is why we do self-inquiry over and over again.

WHY ARE YOU HERE?

The first step to finding clarity around your life is to reflect on what brought you here. Journal about or contemplate on these questions daily:

– Why are you on this planet at this exact moment in time?

– What are you passionate about today?

– What would you like to accomplish before your life is over?

– What do you want to be recognized for?

There’s a passion, a calling, and a light within you when you do what you love. During those moments, you are given a blessing to create meaningful success that is not only fulfilling, but also in true alignment with who you are.

To achieve this alignment, start by exploring your Magic Purpose Square. Your Magic Purpose Square is when you integrate your talents, passions, skills and intentions. These are distinct aspects, each one of them guiding you to ensure you are on the right path.

Your Magic Purpose Square
Your Magic Purpose Square

1. You passions are things you love and care about.

2. Your talents are what you’re good at and what comes naturally to you. It can be writing, cooking, organizing, teaching, speaking, listening, creating, research, technology, making people laugh, or taking care of others.

3. Your skills are things you have learned in school and college, your professional training and education.

4. The intention is the end result you hope to achieve. This is a product of your imagination and creative potential that exists in your mind and hasn’t been realized yet. Intention is a key to monetizing your passions!

And if you want to learn more how to deepen your understanding of yourself and discover your unique gifts and talents that will allow you to monetize your passions and begin making money doing the things you love to do, join us at this powerful weekend workshop.

Also – in my powerful “Living Life On Your Own Terms” Program, I help people discover their passions and talents so they can become unstoppable in their business and personal life. Find out more about this program here.

Looking forward to supporting you at these transformative workshop-events!

Meantime, I’d love to know… What are you most passionate about in your business, career or personal life? What are the thoughts, feelings and sensations that come up for you when you think about living your passion to the fullest? Share your answers in the comments!

To your greatest success!

Irina Maryancik, EHH-MA, EEM-CP, PLT

 

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Irina Maryanchik, EHH-MA, EEM-CP, PLT, works with women entrepreneurs who suffer from autoimmune illnesses. She helps them rebuild their health so they can create profitable, passion-infused business. She is a gifted intuitive, Human Design analyst, Energy Medicine Practitioner, Past Life Therapist, Human Biofield Specialist change catalyst, passion coach, teacher, and speaker. Find out more about Irina here.

How to Become Limitless

How To Become Limitless

When I first started following the call to become an entrepreneur, I had a stable full-time job in NY City, best health benefits in the country, and a six-figure salary. Everything looked perfect on the outside, but I felt miserable on the inside. My body was in a constant pain from sitting on the office chair in front of a monitor for 7 hours a day. I was forcing myself to wake up at 6:000 am every morning so I could be on a 7 am bus filled with sleep-deprived, fagged commuters. I envied people who celebrated their retirement and was secretly hoping to be that person.

I decided to hire a business coach to help me learn how to be self-directed and confident. The greatest gift she gave me was this phrase: “Your only limitation is the one you place on yourself”. She invited me to explore where I was playing small, and what limits I was self-imposing. While working with her I realized that I am truly limitless. So what determined the height of the glass ceilings I created for myself?

Dr. Bruce Lipton’s who studies human biology, explains how we inherit our belief system of what is possible through generations of genetics. Since a was a little girl, I remember my father admiring people who worked for the big corporations and receiving great retirement and health benefits. He would always negatively commented on the entrepreneurship as it couldn’t guarantee a secured future financial stability.

His fears and beliefs were stored deep in my subconscious mind and impacted every part of my career and life. I gave up my personal freedom in exchange for financial stability.

We not only inherit and download the DNA of our parents’ and grandparents’ physical conditions but also their fears and behaviors. This means that we not only inherit our height and eye color but also what we believe is possible in our life.

And this inherited expectation deepens when we spend time with people who have the same limiting beliefs (often fear based), enabling us to get stuck in a never-ending cycle, which we then pass on to our children.

The good news is that, just like our physical health, these mental settings can be changed, thanks to the science of epigenetics. If lifestyle and environmental factors can influence our biological gene expression, what is possible for our inherited mental patterns, beliefs, and behaviors?

Epigenetics is the study of changes in organisms caused by modification of gene expression, rather than alteration of the genetic code itself. Dr. Bruce Lipton and Dr. Joe Dispenza are leaders in the epigenetics field. They explain that every person on the planet has the opportunity to become whoever they want to become, complete with unimaginable power and the ability to operate from the highest possibilities.

They believe that we all have the power to break free from our inherited programming. The first step is to recognize that our subconscious mind exists and has been influencing us. Past Life Therapy, Biofield science, and kinesiology have helped me greatly with learning how to let go of my own fear-based mindset and become an innovative entrepreneur.

YOUR EGO OPERATES FROM FEAR

Your ego, your dark side, the devil on your shoulder, your inner critic… Yes, we all have one and you may know its presence by another name.

Whatever name you call it, it’s likely to have held you back in the past. And the only way you can inerrant with it is to make peace with it, which can be emotionally challenging for many of us.

Your ego does not like when you follow your heart, when starting your dream business or when you dream big. It feels threatened by the creativity and unknowing nature of the future. You will be cracked open and old insecurities and sensitivity will be triggered by limiting beliefs, past stories, blocks, or self-esteem issues.

Unconventional careers ignite our ego because our major fears as humans are humiliation and feeling unloved. This makes us more vulnerable when pursuing entrepreneurship.

Stepping out as a business owner, you are vulnerable and open to criticism, which is especially hard for us. Expressing yourself, sharing your creativity, creating new goals and visions that others might not yet see or believe in, and being seen and heard as your true authentic self is scary. It threatens our ego that wants to feel safe, cool and collected.

It’s a natural survival mechanism for our ego to protect us from the unknown by playing small and staying away from the spotlight. To protect you, the ego tells you stories about being unworthy, about lack of money, about being seen, being heard, and being successful.

Ego tells you about who you are ‘not allowed’ to be. It attaches itself to old failures, stories and, as a result, you can get stuck in patterns and behaviors that most entrepreneurs recognize: overwhelm, perfectionism, imposter syndrome and outdated limiting beliefs that have been with you for years. You may overthink everything and create problems and blocks that exist only in your head.

Do you recognize these thoughts that the ego clings onto to make you stay safe?

“I am good enough, smart enough, pretty enough, qualified enough, connected enough, or young/old enough. In short, never enough of anything!”

Looking at your own insecurities may make you feel uncomfortable, but working through years of limiting beliefs will eventually pay off. Before your audience believes in you, you must believe in yourself!

I believe we’re all put on this planet for a purpose, and we all have a different purpose. When you connect with that love and your passion, that’s when everything shifts.

The secret to overcoming your ego and its fears is knowing that everyone feels this way at times, even your heroes and role models. Recognize and acknowledge these voices and fears without acting on them. The important thing is to understand that it’s okay to feel your fears because you are human. Just don’t let fear hijack your plans because you have a higher purpose to fulfill in life.

Occasionally, you may be rerouted by your fears taking over. We’re about to learn now how to explore and acknowledge our fears, then course correct by reframing them, turning back towards faith. While we never become 100% immune to fears of humiliation or judgment, we can work to identify and diffuse fears as they arise. Transitioning from fear to faith is a daily choice we can make as an entrepreneur.

In my powerful “Living Live on Your Own Terms” program, I help people recognize and eliminate their ego-imposed fears so they can become unstoppable in their business and personal life.  Find out more about the program here or view our transformative workshops here.

To your greatest success,

Irina Maryanchik

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Irina Maryanchik, EHH-MA, EEM-CP, PLT, works with women entrepreneurs who suffer from autoimmune illnesses. She helps them rebuild their health so they can create profitable, passion-infused business. She is a gifted intuitive, Human Design analyst, Energy Medicine Practitioner, Past Life Therapist, Human Biofield Specialist change catalyst, passion coach, teacher, and speaker. Find out more about Irina here.